I apologize for your confustion.
To answer your first question: what I meant is I can do it when I'm inside, and I could do it to everyone when I was alive, but through The Host, I cannot. We're all conscience here.
Second question: No T's seem to be working for us.
And, your third question: There is more than one Erik with us, and now we appear to have a PC family.
Again, I apologize for the confusion.
If you need me to explain even more, please, let me know.
(Kay)Erik