Goodness, you are one of the most supportive people on this forum ! I agree with above posters - people who are hurting often hurt others. You get so much love and support on the boards, perhaps this person is jealous ! Many reasons why people will go on the defensive, rather than work thru their own issues.

I am sorry this happened to you ! Perhaps whoever was mean spirited towards you will explain in PM why they acted the way they did, but if they don't, please dont take it personally Jen, cause I have never seen you bully anyone !