Well, T surprised me today - we were discussing some really negative feelings I'd been dealing with in a bad way, and my T said that I was feeling like I needed to **** things up - she said the 'f' word a few times and then apologized for cussing but said that she felt the situation warranted it. I told her it was fine, I was giggling at T! And then later in the session, I mentioned something about "****", and she repeated what I said, including "****".