we are no longer in contact. This guy treated me well, but did not treat others well. This was a red flag. He also told me "i generally don't discuss my feelings" which a lot of people don't, but it's a non negotiable for me. I broke up with him because i was i saw him as a non supportive, angry, demanding, spoiled, rich brat. I did not want to be bought by the highest bidder. As far as hearing his voice, suddenly i wanted to be friends. Telling him i was a lesbian was okay. Then he wanted a picture of me so i sent him one. His response..."thats you...that doesn't even look like you...you got old!". After i sent the photo he stopped calling me, emailing me. So i started calling him now and then...once i called him on a saturday night. Horrors! His response? "do you really think i sit at home on a saturday night? I was on a date when you called. Do you think it's okay to contact me five times a day?!" i contacted him no more than once a week. He reminds me of my neglectful father. I don't him in my head!