I agree with Shangrala. Even though this is very hard for you, these issues he is dealing with has nothing to do with you. I will say this; he is showing respect for you, because a lot of men wouldn't be honest. He probably does miss you, he just doesn't want to give you false hope. When you talk to him try not to talk about the relationship. Talk to us and your friends about it. I'm saying this because you don't want to pressure him right now. This could turn him off. Save you money just incase the worst happens. I'm not saying it is, I'm just saying so you won't be out on the street if worst comes to the worst. Keep posting so we know how you are doing.