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Originally Posted by Rachie
If anyone has any help advice for me to give my partner to help him deal with me it would be greatly appreciated! Ive been reading some stuff online about what the partner has to deal with when they are living with someone who has BPD. Ive come to realise that i think alot of our problems are my fault. Iwant so much for my relationship to get better. I dont want my boyfriend leaving me because im crazy and i also dont want to lose my son. Thanks in advance
Rachelle.
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Hi I am Joshua. I have a wife that I am seperated from due to her illness that she cant admit that she has. Wow your trying to help him and that to me is all he should need. Could you imagine how he would feel if you always denied that there was anything wrong with you. I have learned that my wife has this by talking to a counsler. I have been for seven years just miserable cause she thinks she is fine and I am the one thats crazy. I am in utter pain over this. I cant seem to let go of her cause I love her. And cant go back cause of her. I wish I was in his shoes. I could go back if she was willing to help me understand her. And get help. But instead I am getting help to save what sanity I have left. I wish I could fix all of our mess with this but I am learning to let god fix her. Your doing the right thing.
Joshua