I agree with you guys about not talking about MYself, MY feelings or the relationship, b/c he has pointed out to me that I keep saying I want, I want, and not asking what does HE WANT, and that goes back to not listening AGAIN. I keep thinking about everything that has been said between us, and it just makes me feel worse b/c I realize that all of this could have possibly been avoided if I would have listened to him the first time, and not just when he got real upset about it. But he has told me he is at fault also, that it's not just my fault, but I see it differently now, I just hope I'm not too late.