I'd get annoyed with mirroring. I haven't noticed it yet with any of my former therapists or the current one. As for swearing in therapy (I solemnly vow to swear whenever possible) I do it unconsciously. I didn't grow up being able to cuss, and yes there are other words I could use, but it's a pause for me, the way some people use "um" or "like". Sometimes it has no emotion at all behind it. Seriously, "The **** did you do yesterday?" Reply "Dunno, nuthin' special." "****...whadder we gonna do today?" "Store's got some *****ing new movies." "****, I don't wanna see another movie. This town's so ****ing boring." "Let's get blitzed." "****, that's what we do every night. Don't wanna be ****ed up tomorrow morning."
Or something like that. Hahaha.
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Last edited by Christina86; Jul 03, 2009 at 10:51 AM.
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