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Old Jul 01, 2009, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by ThePainNeverDies View Post
I feel like I have to carry on the punishments that The Adoptive Family gave me...
What do you think would happen if you didn't? I don't mean, if you didn't punish yourself one way you'd "have to" switch to another way. I mean, what would happen if you didn't punish yourself at all? I imagine one way to find out might be to wait for a bit before punishing yourself, and see what starts to come up for you in the meantime. And no, you don't have to give yourself extra for waiting; you can tell them I said so, if you want.

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I don't feel very courageous.
"Who, me? Courageous?" she says. Pardon me for laughing, but of course -- you're the one who's right there in the thick of it, so of course you wouldbe among the last to notice. Guess that's part of what we're here for.

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Part of me says that it's nothing, what I've told you... But when I think over it fully, I realise that I've found it very hard saying some of the things that I have.
Yes. Like that!

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Especially considering I don't trust very easily. This is the only place I really feel safe.
Thank you kindly. Sounds like we must be doing something right.

I have to run now, TPND, but thanks for being here and... TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, @#$%^&!!!



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