MY OPINION:

Oh no she don't - Your THERAPIST, all Therapist are NOT allowed to TELL you What to do.... they may suggest things you might want to work on.

The eye contact thing - She is working on a self-esteem issue for you - she thinks -

But truth - Other issues need to be attended to enable to reach the point of being able to do that - Other wise it will be a forced, fake behavior.

Sometimes Eye Contact (in the world) can even cause a problem - like some jerk off trying to get your attention.

She calls you on things - She needs to be called on it as well.

OH THIS UPSETS ME TO THE MAX! To you to her!