Well, the possibility of a loss of desire due to physical discomfort is there. For several months she has been telling me that sometimes it hurts when we have sex.

I told her to tell me when this happens and we'll make it stop - she's never interrupted and said "Hey i'm in pain" so I don't know ...

She's 24 and I am 29.

That I know of - There is nothing bothering her. Although we recently had a discussion (about a month and a half ago) about seperating and how she was seriously considering it so she could go out and party, get shiftfaced and have the option to be promiscuous (This leads me to believe that she wants to be sexual with someone other than me). Not that we don't go out or anything.. so I don't know where this stemmed from.

But she concluded that she would be better off staying with me because the things she wanted were so small and unimportant that when they became dull, she would be left with "nothing" in her words.

After that - we as a couple have been good, no real issues popped up and from what she tells me and what I gather, there is nothing wrong.