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Old Jul 01, 2009, 03:24 PM
Jenn1fer82 Jenn1fer82 is offline
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Originally Posted by Gina23 View Post
I think that my boyfriend is attracted to my best friend and the thought of it disturbs me. At a dinner recently he could not stop looking at her. It is not unexpected she is a lot like me looks and personality, however my gut just churns and i fear that it is like one of those intuitive things.
The situation is that it was my birthday dinner and i had invited her and some other friends. She came without her boyfriend in a tight, low cut, breast popping dress. My boyfriend and her ended up talking from across the table and she began to complain about her financial state. My boyfriend is well off, and makes good money so on the way home he asked me if he should lend her some money. Normally i would think this was a very sweet thing to do for a friend, however my own sister was complaining about her own financial state a few days before and he had not mentioned to help her out. This besides the fact that he was stealing glances at her chest through the night makes me feel like my friend is a threat to our relationship, but i dont know if i am just being paranoid.

Hmm.. this is a tough situation bc there's alot of miscommunication going on here. How long have you guys been together and do you guys have a strong relationship? Men will be men and with their short attention span they are easily distract by things that interest them. I'm not saying he likes your friend but men loves boobs. Maybe talk to the guy and ask what he thinks of your good friend. You can also wait it out for a little while if his actions continues to be questionable then let him know about it. Don't attack the guy becaues it will only make things worst for the relationship and you won't be able to make your point.