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(((SALUKI))). It is very hard not to get disturbed when you already have issues and are stressed with no time to yourself to regroup as it is at this time. You need to be sincere to yourself and your relationship, and need to start setting boundaries for yourself in order to get the time you need for yourself with your boyfriend and not have to feel guilty about setting boundaries. Your therapist can be very knowledgable about proceeding in this endeavour, so that you feel safer in embarking in relationship issues that may arise due to setting boundaries. The main concern is not to feel threatened or undermined in setting "Appropriate Boundaries" and time limits or restraints on this relationship, and seek help and advice from your therapist as needed if things get too out of hand for you to handle yourself. Going through what you are going through is not only mentally draining but physically as well, and you need to try to set things straight with your boyfriend before it could lead to mental health or health problems in general, that could have otherwise been avoided. Honesty is very important at this time, you should not delude yourself into believing that you can handle everything on your own, or feel that you need to handle everything on your own without your therapists help. The correct guidance at this time can make things go smoother for you and hopefuly the person you are with as well in accepting the boundaries set forth for the relationship to persevere in the future. Take care of YOU (((SALUKI))). Soidhonia
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The Caged Bird Sings with a Fearful Trill
of Things Unknown and Longed for Still
and his Tune is Heard on the Distant Hill
for the Caged Bird Sings of Freedom
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