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Old Jul 01, 2009, 07:28 PM
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Hi Jiakhan. I think you might find it more helpful to place your attention back on yourself and your life rather than focusing on the guy. Good suggestion from jerrymichele to seek out your other friends and get involved in activities you enjoy.

Also realize that the reason the guy stopped showing interest may having nothing to do with you at all. It may be all about him and what's going on inside him or in his life.

We all want to assume it's our fault when a relationship ends. But usually it really is about the other person, what they think they need or want or lack. When it is right with a guy you will know it instinctively. Until then consider all failed relationships as learning experiences and perhaps you won't feel so bad about yourself, or so hurt.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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Thanks for this!
AkAngel