There is a great book by Melodie Beatty called 'Co-Dependant No More' & 'Beyond Co-Dependancy' ... I think last time I saw it, she combined the books.

I hope that you do see what Pom is saying about not getting tangled in another couples issues.

It has a way of turning on the wrong people ~ especially as difficulties mount.

Avoid the projections and misunderstandings by remaining their friend, but releasing their issues.

Listen, love them, and hope for the best.

Peace and Support,
Night
xoxo