Hi Reah,

I think Angie's hubby will be very sweet and understanding about it. I think you just need to sit him down and tell him flat out. You can let him know that you understand it might be scary or disturbing to him, or that it might hurt his feelings or make him think it's his fault. Just let him know that it's not his fault, and that he is a wonderful support to you all and you will need his support dealing with this, too.

Love lots,
Angela