I use the phrase "what the ****"?!? all of the time in T. It is my go to phrase for outrage, anger, frustration- you name it. I've honestly never thought much about swearing in T, I just do it. My everyday life is quite tame- an f bomb every now and again can be quite a release.

My T, I am sure, doesn't swear much. She has a few times in T but it is usually in echo to my WTF!?!.

Yesterday, however she initiated a swearing...I was explaining my feelings and suddenly was at a loss for words. I said "Its like..." She said "WTF?!?" I looked at her and I said "Exactly!" I thought it was really cute.