hi, i've come up with a realtionship issue ofcourse. actually i got in touch with nice guy andstayed in touch 4 about 6 months. then he moved to some other country for job. i knew that he had to go but it all happened so quickly that i didnt even get time togather myself up. i was emotionally attached to him. we never actually met but u know in south asia only talking to a guy can b enough to get u into an emotional relationship.

anyway. he stopped contacting me once he moved away. but i just couldnt move on. even though abt 5 months have passed. i donno what to do as i was so much dependent on him. he was a great support emotionally and he was a really nice guy.but see what this nice guy has done to me. he knew it very well that i was dependent on him so he didnt even bother to tell me when he got away that things r not going to b the same as before and that i should give up on him now. i pleaded continuosly during all this time that if he has decided to move on he should simply tell me off instead of making me figure this out myself from his behaviour.

now............ he has finally told me off. ... i have him on facebook and i have his contact number. i dont know what should i do now. there's no chance that he will come back to me. but i dont want to remove him from my facebbok list for few reasons....
1) he has told me to remove him....why should i take orders from him?! huh.
2) i tried this before aswell and had removed him but he didnt even take notice and i missed him so much that i again added him.
3) i want to spy on him from facebbok,lol, and i donno may be i want to give him impression that im still happy by putting this thing up on my facebook status. i read it somewhere that if someone ditches u...dont show that u r weak and should always behave like as if nothing bad happened to u. the only way i can convey this msg to him is by FACEBOOK.

so what do u guys advice me on this? i really want to move on, to forget that guy,and to become a better person (as i know that there really are some deficiencies in me which repulsed him..it wasnt entirely his fault to dump me ).

im eagerly waiting for u guys to come to my help. i just cant gather myself up coz im kind ov shattered. i know such a trivial thing (as some ppl might say this) must not affect my life in such a bad way. waiting for ur response. thanks.