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Originally Posted by Pomegranate
Hi Jiakhan. I think you might find it more helpful to place your attention back on yourself and your life rather than focusing on the guy. Good suggestion from jerrymichele to seek out your other friends and get involved in activities you enjoy.
Also realize that the reason the guy stopped showing interest may having nothing to do with you at all. It may be all about him and what's going on inside him or in his life.
We all want to assume it's our fault when a relationship ends. But usually it really is about the other person, what they think they need or want or lack. When it is right with a guy you will know it instinctively. Until then consider all failed relationships as learning experiences and perhaps you won't feel so bad about yourself, or so hurt. 
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thanks dear. i have posted a more detailed post on the forum so that u can have a better idea of my situation. i really want to move on.
