I agree with Sabby. I think the two of you should have a heart to heart talk. I think the issue with his daughter is more on the fact that she wants to be with her parents. If his daughter lives with the grandparents then it would be upsetting to her not to live with at least one of her parents. She's blaming you, but really it's your husband. If she doesn't want to come to your house then your husband should visit over there. Maybe he needs to do one one time with her. I would tell your husband to stop screaming at you, and especially your kids. Your kids don't need that, and you to. Hope this helps.