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Jul 03, 2009, 09:42 AM
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Member Since: Feb 2007
Location: Florida
Posts: 1,611
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(((Marjan))) you've been fighting this for so long now. Maybe you should try a sort of reverse psychology on yourself (and him). Just give in to it. You want to be married and have children, so you continue to look for that. Use as many ways you can think of to meet men you might want to marry.
Until then though, when he's around, relax and have fun with him. Just let him know you aren't in an exclusive relationship with him, and protect yourself from STD's. Let him know you enjoy his limited company and that he's free to see other women and you are busy looking for a man who wants a real relationship that could lead to marriage and children. Then do that.
He'll do what he always does, try to make you jealous with other women. Ignore that and when you aren't with him, spend you time thinking about and doing things that will get you with men who could be husband material.
Maybe by releasing yourselves from preconceived ideas about what kind of relationship you have to have together, things will just naturally take there course. And most importantly you can stop driving yourself crazy!! 
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