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Old Jul 03, 2009, 02:54 PM
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No sense, no point in talking to him about being exclusive if you don't want him as a husband. That's is a wise choice on your part. Also it sounds like he would never be exclusive anyway, no matter what he says. You need to keep yourself open to potential marriage partners, that's the most important reason to not talk about being exclusive with him. I know it will hurt if you see him with other women but there's no sense beating yourself up and being in such distress when you do end up with him. Just get it straight in your mind and his what the limits are to the relationship.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."