Hi All,
My fiance and I have been dating just three years, got engaged in August, bought a house together in December and he got me a puppy for new years! We have been doing the normal fighting that comes with new stress but now I think its more than that. I think he really regrets moving out of his parents house. He complains all the time that he misses them and how I cant understand because I see my family more and that he's jealous of that. I dont keep him from seeing his family. He works late. Also, I work night shift so sometimes I don't see him for a few days between his late working and my leaving for work. I thought we had talked it all through months ago but then last night he called while I was at work. He went out with his friends and is sleeping at his parents and just kept talking about how he misses "home" ie his parents house, and he misses his mom waking him up in the morning and just everyday life at his parents house. He was really upset. Also he hates being alone. And with night shift he is alone a lot. He thought having a puppy would solve that. It's been 8 months living together. It was his first time moving out of his parents. I am really worried this will be a longtime problem and take us to our breaking point. He refuses to see someone, thinking we just need to talk more. I dont understand how talking can fix this problem that he may regret all of this? Should I be worried??
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