Its been a month since I first posted. We spent a week very uncomfortably then two weeks pretending nothing happened and this past week has been back to discomfort.

We have a counseling appt on Friday.

This is not a normal fight and I still do not understand her reaction.

As to there being more to the story. There is always more to the story, I am certain there is a great deal more that I don't know about and a great deal I am conciously and sub-conciously choosing not to share.