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Its yours to tell when your ready. When you feel safe and comfortable, you can tell if needed. I understand why you lied. At times there are private things that we are not ready to share. Please keep yourself safe. Do talk to your daughter about it though. Often children are taught to see problems but not talk about them which is unhealthy. You may want to explain why you didn't want to talk about it with your family. This will help her bring realness to the adult issues that she experiences inside and talk about her feelings.