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Originally Posted by kittenkirk
I had to chime in. The hardest thing to do is not be wanted by someone...Althoug we want to be even if it's negative attention. You really know what you want and what you don't want....why settle for someone just to be wanted (if only for a day or a few hours)? I played that game...thinking he'd come back to me...in reality I didn't want him back. I just wanted to feel good that he wanted me....and that's sick. You don't want him...you want to be wanted....but there is someone out there who geniunely will want you and will love you in a good way....not for a blow job now and then. Sounds cruel but guys dress up as loving you for sex....and it happened to me so I know that being sexy and available won't get the man....and in the long run ....he wasn't even a man...just a mixed up kid in man's body.
Respect yourself and treat yourself special and someone else will too.
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wow....you know it all
Yes...we want to be loved and wanted even if we don't want the person....that's so strange....if we reformat our brain to get rid of this self grasping and attachment, life will be much easier for us and others...isn't it?
love you all
