I have been married for 27 yrs I have a son age 14. My husand and I haven't truly gotten along, as in doing anything together, or wanting to. I am become involved recently with my cousin and we'd like to separate from our married partners and get together. I know this sounds so strange, but we have so much in common and have a great time together. My husband just sits around every given moment he can and either sleeps or watches tv. Even on chore day he sits and does not help. The more I do the more that is expected of me, the less I do no one cares except me. My husband isn't a bad guy, its jsut after all these years we've sort of grown apart. The length of years makes is hard to leave, and my this isn't doing my son any good either. It only shows him no affection in a relationship. I sound confused, but I just don't know how to leave my husband after all this time. How do I leave a good man, even if its to be alone?