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Jul 05, 2009, 02:47 AM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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Quote:
Originally Posted by JayS
Some don't talk anymore so they must be scared and if they are then everyone is... and I'm not seeing things, it was there... and I do understand... you're scared to talk to me too.
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Jay....
I don't know you very well on here and I haven't talked with you much. As of now, I haven't had any experiences with you that would make me afraid of you. I do read your threads when I come to them, but I may not always leave a comment. But it's not personal. I do that with everybody here....it just depends on what state I'm in cause sometimes I don't feel like I have anything helpful to say and sometimes I don't feel like I'm worthy enough to share my opinion. Other times I might feel that something is over my head. I think most people here go through similar feelings when it comes to replying to threads.
As for what you stated in your above quote about if some people are scared to talk to you then everybody is.....I think that that is very black and white thinking....not allowing for any grey-in between reasoning. Sometimes I think like this too, but mostly lately when my PTSD/BPD symptoms become exacerbated.
Maybe it would be beneficial for you to seek out a T? (I don't know if you have had one before?) I think that it could help you process some of your thoughts and emotions and help you learn to find other ways to cope. Maybe help you see things from a different angle or perspective.
I'm glad you spoke up though. It wouldn't do anything for you to keep it inside. It would just eat you from the inside out.
Anyway, I hope you know I'm here for you. Take care!! 
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