You don't know why you won't go to counseling? That might be something to think about before trying to talk your friend into going. It's kind-of hard to ask someone else to do something and have much credibility if you aren't willing to do it yourself.

Counseling is scary to start up - especially that first step - getting started. But after that it's nice, and it really helps. It really feels good to have someone understand you and accept who you are, and help you to reach your potential. Not to say it's all smooth sailing - it does get rough - but it's worth it. Especially when you find a counselor who is right for you.

Maybe if you go, your friend will be more willing to try it too.