i wear trifocals (hate them) and today, the doctor said, "why are you looking at me so funny?"....it's hard to not take things personally, with him, but i managed to laugh and explain my glasses. he is continually looking for signs of disrespect from the employees. never mind, that he disrespects us and the patients on a daily basis. so, i did have the thought in mind, that it isn't always about me....that helped.......thank you, Sarah Jane!!!!!!!