Shame, I can understand your fear around losing time and not knowing what went on when you wernt out (even though whomever is out could be very safe and a good helper)

But with therapy, maybe its okay. If you have a T who really knows how to help people who live as DID. Then maybe whoever comes out can get some help and healing. If you know what i mean. After all, most people inside probably need therapy too. If you feel like you need to talk to the T more than you do, because others are coming out, perhaps you can talk to your T about increasing the amount of time you all spend with her?? Just a thought. Sending blessings to you all