I've been serious about a man 20 years older than myself and guess it would depend on what a woman was looking for. I was the youngest of 5 children, and my sister is 13 years older than I am so I grew up with my parents and older sister's values so know and like the music of that era, etc. It's been interesting to me now; my husband is only 7 years older than I am but I had more "in common" with his father than with him :-) His father, however, dated women 25-30 years younger than he was; when he turned 80 we were going to give him a big party at him membership club but he forbade us, saying he didn't want his girlfriends to know how old he was! LOL. He loved to dance and party and they were great dancing partners and club hoppers like he was.

I think it's mostly an attitude; I also know my 90's music and my husband, a former DJ, quit listening in the late-1960's! I didn't get married until I was 39 and I wouldn't have a different man for nothing! The right guy for you is the right guy for you.