Shangrala if this man makes you happy then don't worry about what other people say. What matters is what makes you happy. A lot of people can't stand the way i do things, but I look at it like this. I'm going to live my life the way I want to live it. If you have an issue with it that's your issue not mine. I'm not going to accommodate what you need, but what I need. There are a lot of people out there who always have something to say about what someone does. We all have some type of issue just look at it like that if someone has something to say.