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Old Jul 05, 2009, 08:22 PM
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it's perfectly normal, rozine .

my old-T used to tell me it was ok, and that he had people who came in and cried all the time. i didnt believe him, but then he showed me the bin that was 3/4 full from tissues already for that day (it gets emptied out every day - lol, how many boxes his clients must go through!). i did cry a few times with him, and at one point i was crying nearly every session, and i said "i feel stupid for crying every session" and he was really surprised because a) he doesn't think it's bad to cry and b) he didn't notice that i did it regularly. maybe because it's such a part of his job, he doesn't notice it as something abnormal to store away.

i have become a bit teary with my pdoc but never completely bawled my eyes out (thank god). i dont know why it is more difficult with pdoc, because i trust him so much more than old-T.
Thanks for this!
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