So my friend whom I barely get to see and hardly talk to in 8 years (but whom I love dearly and always have) threw me for a loop in april. Basically professed his undying love for me, apparently has been in love with me for 5 yrs. but 5yrs ago I was too young (there is 14 yrs between us) and I was engaged.
He knows me better then anyone else knows all my issues there are a few big ones. Which barely anyone knows.

So hears the thing talking for the last couple months, I have fallen head over heels for him and spend days waiting to talk to him. He lives a 4 hour drive from me so we never get to see each other, plus we are both single parents so super busy.
In the last 2 weeks I have talked to him once, this is not enough for me I want more and I feellike he isn't making time for me. His son is 13 whereas my 2 daughters are both under 3, so I feel he should be making more of an efort to be here then me there. I s this wrong.
When we talked about this he told me fate has a strange way of working things out, and why am I in a hurry. I don't want to wait I want things to progress now. Grrrrrr What do I do wait or whine??