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Jul 05, 2009, 11:10 PM
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I really havn't come up with a solution actually.
I don't want him stuck in an unhealthy relationship...
And it'd kill me to have to wait until the next disaster happens and he breaks up with her again.
But at the same time you could talk to him until you are blue in the face and I'm pretty sure he won't change his mind, for whatever reason he seems to be madly in love with this girl. I'm under the impression that if I tried he's just get mad at me anyways (which I can't blame him for either, I can only imagine how annoying that would be). I don't want to be that person who tries to break a couple up  .
...and it really doesn't help that every single female in the same vicinity of me who sees when we are around each other thinks I have a crush on him. (it must be pretty obvious then?) though as far as I'm concerned he is one of my best friends ...who I like ...a lot (okay, I'll admit it: I still think I'm crushing all over for him but in my head there are several reasons why it'd never work out). I can just picture it though, if I did express to him my feelings and she found out then she'd just assume and try to convince everyone that I'm trying to steal her boyfriend or something. (though, she's have a tough time doing that- I have a reputation of being super nice  ) I'm not exactly afraid of her, I just don't want to get caught up in a tangled web of drama and lies.
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