Has anyone had to tell someone close to them that they are aggravating your depression? How did they take it? My family keeps making things worse but I don't know how to explain that to them without them getting defensive or angry, without us having a huge fight that will basically end on their terms because everything always does anyway, or without me feeling incredibly guilty for saying anything in the first place. I'm terrified of my parents' disapproval, always have been. Besides that, I'm not sure I'll be able to make them listen to me at all.
How do I phrase this? How do I approach them without coming across as a b**** or being melodramatic? Or should I just keep my mouth shut altogether? After all, it's not like I have any place else to go right now, and I will only be here for a few more months before I go back to school.
Advice? Suggestions? Maybe just some hugs?
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Rebecca
"If you're going through hell -- keep going."
- Winston Churchill
It's better to live your own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody else's life with perfection.
- Elizabeth Gilbert
Bring on the wonder, we got it all wrong,
we pushed you down deep in our souls, so hang on.
Bring on the wonder, bring on the song,
I pushed you down deep in my soul for too long.
- Susan Enan
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