I have to admit that I found it rather amusing that someone was offended by the use of the word "aspie". I've been on various AS forums and I don't think I've ever come across anyone who was offended by that term before.

Sophia, it sounds like you've had a bad experience with a specific person. Not all people with Asperger's are like that. We're all very different. I'm a little like daynight, as far as at least a few issues go.