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Originally Posted by Gabla
I'm just curious if anybody else has done something like this -- purposefully not developing relationships because you may want an "out" at a later time and don't want to get to close to anyone- don't want to hurt them.
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Hi, Gabla. Welcome
I'm sorry you are going through all this.
I do understand.
Purposely avoiding close relationships is exactly what I am doing. Don't want anyone to suffer with or for me.. whichever is more appropriate.
Besides, people usually want to have fun and feel happy in their relationships. Grumpy and sad thing to take care of is the best I can offer.
Although I'm wrong about the whole thing.. If they love you - they will do anything to make you feel good.. still I don't think I can fall in love. Even if I do.. something goes wrong. And then what? Instinct of self preservation at its best.. So I just hide or shy away from affairs
Sorry for my English
