((((starrina))))

So sorry you are feeling this way and that you have been unbelieved. First I want to validate you and what happened. I do believe you and I know how cruel family can be and how they do not believe you and do not support you. But I do believe you and want you to know that you are not alone. I am sorry for all the pain you feel.

I am sorry your daughter and her dad are treating you badly also. I understand about the drinking issue. I do not believe you do not care about your daughter and sometimes we have to give them tough love. She may not understand it right now, for at 16, they sometimes feel they have all the answers and they just do not listen. I also wonder if something happened to her as that is a possibility for her destructive behavior. Just a thought. But it is still no excuse for the treatment you are getting.

I am glad you posted and shared with us. I know it had to be hard but sometimes writing it can help. Hang in there and know you are not alone. I do hope you have someone to talk to IRL that can be there to support you and listen. Know we are here and listening and walking there with you so you are not alone. Do you have a t? Maybe that would help you.

I hope you will continue to post and let us know how you are feeling. We are here and listening.

dps