Hello kethree, it's nice to meet you, welcome to psych central.
Have you tried talking to him about the situation? Sometimes communication can help situations like this, another thing is have you tried to entice him with wearing something to perk his interest.
For me post pregnancy sex is better then it was before and my hubby doesn't seem to have any complaints either.
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