hi. while i am new here, i am 46 and not new at relationships.

nor am i new to moving to be with or near someone.

did it three times, and once was immigration to another country.
i am back in the u.s., just to clarify

if you want to move . . . . you have valid reasons to do so. but i do not think you should move only for this guy.

that said, it does sound as if he really likes you, for you. (and i do not blame him. you are articulate, you sound friendly, nice and very intelligent) (you admit you sell yourself far short....)

but imagine moving there, and if you never see or hear from this guy again. will you still want to be there?

put yourSELF first.
just my opinion, and thanks for letting me express it : )
hugs, xxx