Thanks for responding back so soon. I am sorry that it took me so long to respond back, but I have been so busy and so much is going on in my life. I feel what you are saying, but I think I have found the right answer. I think the best thing for me to do is not be in a relationship with him. I am better off alone. Others know about everything I have wrote on on this site. I have no problems with sharing to someone I feel comfotable on sharing with. Or just getting it out so others will know that there is another side of him and our relationship. It is not all what it seems to be. I have broken up with him, but he still keeps making contact with me anyway and every way he can and I keep on falling right into it. I am so upset because he slepted over this girls house last night and he said it was because I wasn't with him and he was hanging out with his friends. This is not the first time he slpeted over a girls house before. There is no way I can be with a man who does that everytime I am not around him. I am tired of the bull [censored]. I just wished he would leave me alone all together. Pretty soon if he doesn't I am going to have to take it to another level and get a retriaining order on him. I am already keeping records of everything now just in case. A part of me sometimes feels like it is my fault, but I know deep down inside no matter how many times he says it is my fault I know that it isn't. He blames me all the time for his wrong doings and I can't deal with that anymore. What is his problem. Thanks so much for your advice and I hope to hear from you soon. I am still going to counseling right now and it is helping each week. I already see that I am getting stronger and stronger everyday. Thanks again!