Just seems like everytime something good happens, the rest falls to crap.

Alternative interpretation: There is a lot of crap. You are starting to pick up the pieces and right things. You successfully right some things while other things continue as they were. Your focus is on the pile that still needs work instead of what you have successfully accomplished. Working through this stuff is a slow process.

found money to save my house, but now have to justify how i spend to everybody around me, who are trying to "help"

Why do you have to justify or explain yourself to anyone??????

Ive had help in the past, led me nowhere........But yet, im stubborn,and hard headed and wont accept help right?

Ive had issues spending in the past, now the bills get paid before anything else. I always was labeled the one who needs help, who cant make a go of it on her own.

Why bother trying if thats how they feel. Dammit, ive done well up to now. Ive kept my jobs, my house, why isnt that good enough. Why do people have to judge me.

I spend 10 dollars every other week at the dollar tree. thats my big spending spree.

Wow - Im just flippin money right out the window huh????

These are their opinions. If you know better your opinion should be paramount not theirs.