Thank you Thinker. My husband knows exactly how I feel, I never hide that from him, I can't. I feel like I am nagging him everyday to call his parents, He is stubborn and very pig headed and I do think it is a principal thing who knows. I guess I can try to continue fixing the relationship between me and his parents and let the rest fall into place, I just can't help feeling it is all my fault and I am trying so hard to make things right. I wish I could snap my fingers and erase the last six months or atleast part of it.