I feel really bad for doubting my bf but I just can't help it. He's going through a really bad divorce and the process of child support and visitation is very complicated. He's asked me to help him through it and I've done with what I can especially when I've never been through anything like this before. My concern is when we're about to see someone to help him understand how to make the process alittle bit less overwhelming something always happens. An example is we're suppose to go to a self-help legal service office and he calls me to tell me he's real nervous. I told him it'll be okay and I'll be by his side. 15 minutes later he tells me his car won't start. He's done this before with other occasions. We'll plan to do something and suddenly something will come up that makes it almost impossible to continue our plans. I can't help it but to question him and just say "what the heck is going on here". I wonder if he's lieing and just don't want to deal with his issues. I'm ready and dressed to leave today with him but now I"m home feeling frustrated. I wonder if he has anything to hide with this divorce that he doesn't want me to find out. I just dont like feeling this way about him bc I love him. I feel I couldn't talk to him about this bc he'll get very defensive. I could never understand how overwhelming it could be to go through a divorce and have kids. I would just assume that he would grab the bull by its horn and just tackle the issues.