[quote=BiscuitTin;1067911]Could it be that he isn't in the mood because he feels that you are pressuring him into it? . . . it needs to be a spontaneous thing . . .

I know that is kind of part of it. He doesn't like to talk about it because it makes him want it even less. But i'vee beeen kind of leaving it alone and just thinking it's not gonna happen... Hoping maybe he will do something. We just talked and he agreed to leave his computer at home tommorow night. So that's a step maybe i will at least get some cuddle time. I miss him so much.