Thanks for responding to my post. Yes, I do think that he needs professional help. He even knows he needs it but, I don't think that he will ever try and get it. He talks the talk, but never walks the walk and I can't deal with that anymore. I' m fed up. We did break up, but we are still attached to each other. He keeps coming around and it is making it hard for me to break away from him. He knows that he is making it hard on me. I might need to just get away for awhile altogether till I get over him because he will do whatever to stay in contact with me. It is driving me crazy. Right now I am going to hold off on the woman's crisis center because I am getting counselling once a week which is really helping me a whole lot. Thanks for your prayers and thanks for the advice. I hope to hear from you real soon. Take care!