Wow, there are bad therapists out there you know, perhaps he needs a different one. If his therapist is saying he can't pick up his own drink bottles/cans there is a problem. It sounds like there is a lot of manipulation going on. At 17 he's old enough to make his own midnight meal, and clean up his mess behind him.

How is the Prozac working for him? In my experience there have been two completely different reactions to this drug. My Aunt, who is aggressive by nature turned into a lamb on this medication. My son, who had never shown any type of aggression of any type turned into a monster.