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In my therapy and recovery experiences reconcilliation does not come until after we've faced the hurt, dealt with the anger and pain and gone through the process of forgiveness. And even when all that has been done a decision has to be made if the person is at all safe.
You and the system don't sound anywhere near ready in my opinion.
Why the rush? Why now?
A list of the potential benefits VS a list of the potential harm might be a place to start. I found it is never wise to skip steps in the process of healing.
Just my opinion, take what ya want and leave the rest.
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However confused the scene of our life appears, however torn we may be who now do face that scene, it can be faced, and we can go on to be whole.
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